Sunday, December 20, 2009

Christmas Message

I thought, given the season, that it might be appropriate for some sort of short Christmas thought or story to perhaps help us briefly focus on the true meaning of Christmas. I wasn't sure what to post however until John's brother Todd sent us an email a couple weeks ago. Last December, on the Sunday before Christmas, John's dad was asked to speak in his church and address the congregation on this very topic - The True Meaning of Christmas. Those of us that were within driving distance snuck in the back door so that we could listen. It was perfect. However, as amazing as it was, we had somehow already found a way to forget it in less than a year. Todd apparently managed to dig up a copy and emailed it to the family. After reading it, I decided I had found the perfect Christmas post even if it didn't meet my criteria of being "short". It is a bit long, but I promise that if you can take 5 minutes, it is well worth the read. Anyway, here it is. Merry Christmas everyone!!!


The True Meaning of Christmas
Robert W. Pommerville – December 2008
Every time we hear that a speaker’s topic is “The True Meaning of Christmas”, we know that the talk will begin by stating that Christmas isn’t really about Santa Claus, or presents, or parties, or Christmas bonuses, or big dinners – wait, we might have to make an exception for big dinners. But you will hear that Christmas is about the babe born in Bethlehem over 2000 years ago, and in one sense, it is. But in fact, it is really about something more – something so immense in scope that it is always difficult for us to fully comprehend it.

All of our Heavenly Father’s planning and preparation, all of his interest in his children and all of his desires for them, all of his aims and goals for the entire universe, came down to a singular moment in a specific time and place on this earth in a garden called Gethsemane, and at a place called Golgotha, and in a Garden Tomb; all of which are located outside of the walls of the city of Jerusalem in the Kingdom of Judah. Without these three places and what happened in them in God’s eternal plan, everything else would have been a colossal waste – everything. Without the events involving one particular Man in that olive vineyard over two thousand years ago, God’s purposes would have been utterly frustrated. Sin, death, decay, destruction, hell, and endless torment would reign supreme forever and ever. If Gethsemane and Golgotha had turned out to be places associated with suffering and failure rather than suffering and triumph, everything that went before and everything that came afterward would have been reduced to a series of meaningless events in the eternal scheme of things, for there would have been no eternal life. Deterioration, disorder, and chaos would ultimately fill the vastness of the universe; all beauty, human kindness, refinement, and acts of goodness would be forgotten as wasted energy. Truly, Gethsemane was the place where eternity hung in the balance.


Scientists tell us that the natural order of things in our universe is an irrevocable, steady movement toward decay: from life to death, from organization to chaos, from a condition or state of lesser degeneration to one of greater degeneration (a concept called entropy). This state of being is true for all kingdoms and creations – animals, plants, stars, and other systems. Without Christ’s atonement, human beings and the worlds on which they reside would be locked forever in the vise grip of death and dissolution. But with and through Christ’s atonement, all things are made new. The process of decay is not only halted but reversed. Because of the Atonement, which includes the events in Gethsemane as well as those at Golgotha and in the Garden Tomb, all things in the universe are empowered, renewed, and revitalized. Thus, Christ is the light and the life of the world.

The scriptures teach us exactly what the atonement means:

“And behold, he shall be born of Mary, at Jerusalem which is the land of our forefathers, she being a virgin, a precious and chosen vessel, who shall be overshadowed and conceive by the power of the Holy Ghost, and bring forth a son, yea, even the Son of God.
And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people.
And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities.
Now the spirit knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God suffereth according to the flesh that he might take upon him the sins of his people, that he might blot out their transgressions according to the power of his deliverance; and now behold this is the testimony which is in me.”

It seems that suffering for our sins was only part of the great atoning sacrifice of the Savior in the Garden and at Golgotha – He also suffered for our pains, our sicknesses and our infirmities; and He suffered to save us all from death and from meaninglessness. We will all live forever because of Him. He also suffered to provide a way for those of His children who would be obedient and humbly accept His gospel and endure to the end to be exalted and to live forever in the presence of God the Father and His Son Jesus Christ.

Please pay attention to a statement by C.S. Lewis concerning the Savior’s temptation and atoning experience:

“No man knows how bad he is till he has tried very hard to be good. A silly idea is current that good people do not know what temptation means. This is an obvious lie. Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is; after all, you find out the strength of the German army by fighting against it, not by giving in. You find out the strength of a wind by trying to walk against it, not by lying down. A man who gives into temptation after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later.
That is why bad people in one sense know very little about badness. They’ve always lived a sheltered life by always giving in. We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside us until we try to fight it: and Christ, because he was the only man who never yielded to temptation, is also the only man who knows to the full what temptation means – the only complete realist.”

Yes, Christmas is about the child lying in the manger in Bethlehem, but only because that child symbolizes what it was he was sent to this earth to do. The great and infinite atoning sacrifice of the Savior Jesus Christ – the eternity shaping events in Gethsemane, at Golgotha and at the Garden Tomb – made life for all of us meaningful and significant. Thus, Christmas is about us, about you, about me, it is about the man and the woman that we now are, and it is about the man and the woman that we may become. It matters that we learn to forgive others, that we perform many acts of goodness and kindness, that we learn to love everyone, that we build families into eternal units of exaltation and glory, that we learn, finally, to give all that we have and are and all that we ever will have or be to our Father in Heaven and to trust Him in everything. I testify that Jesus, the babe of Bethlehem, is the maker and finisher of our salvation, our Savior, the great Jehovah, God of Heaven and Earth, our friend and advocate with the Father. I know Him – I trust Him – and I love Him.

That we might learn to become the very best we can be, that we might learn to become more like the Savior each and every day of our lives, that is what Christmas is really about, and it is my prayer that we might so live and so learn, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Grandma's recipe...





Chinese Noodle Candy
1 12 oz package Butterscotch chips
½ c. Peanut butter
Melt in double broiler (if you don’t have one like me, just stir the whole time so it doesn’t burn on the bottom)
In large bowl combine:
½ bag mini marshmallows
2/3 bag Chinese noodles
1 c. chopped walnuts (or any other kind)

Pour melted mixture over ingredients in bowl and stir just enough to coat. Drop by spoonfuls onto wax paper and let cool.

*This recipe was handed down to me by my grandma. She made it at Christmas time with divinity and fudge. I changed the recipe (this is the new one) because I wanted more marshmallows and noodles.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

New thing...

Sophia's new thing is that she wants "a baby in my belly." So she stuffs her baby up her shirt or down her PJ's.

She sleeps like this. It's too cute to make her take it out.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Volunteers

There is an event here in Utah called the Festival of Trees. People donate decorated Christmas trees, crafts, candy, etc, and they sell it there. 100% of the proceeds go to the Primary Children's Medical Center.

Yes, I think it's great that the Festival of Trees has all volunteers. But really... Check out these pictures of my kids on Santa's lap...






And at last... I got ONE without her in the picture....
Even though they are volunteers, if I wouldn't have gotten that one, I think I would have to complain. Really.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Gingerbread house...

Don't you love it when you buy one of these cute kits, thinking you will build the best gingerbread house with your kids, that looks just like the pictures, and your kids will think you are the coolest mom ever???



And ended up making this...

Am I the only one who cannot get these stupid things to stick together? Pretty similar to the pictured one, right? And yes, my kids started crying. Awesome. I rock.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Another top 10 list...

Top ten reasons why to have kids...

23. They are so fun to dress up... whether it be for church, or to play in the snow... I love to see them in different clothes.

22. I love it when they make silly faces.

21. It is so fun to teach your kids.

20. I love the things kids say.

19. There is nothing better than to see your baby take his first steps.

18. It is so fun to see them grow.

17. I love their little hands and feet.

16. There is nothing better than to hear those little feet running around.

15. You will always have your kids.

14. Your kids love you even when you don't even love you.

13. I love the endless hugs and kisses.

12. I love their handwriting/drawings.

11. There is nothing better than to see your kids get excited about something (Christmas, daddy coming home, going to McDonalds, etc).

10. They love you no matter if they tell you they don't. (they have short memories)

9. It is SOOO fun to see them learn and put two and two together.

8. They do cute and funny things all day long.

7. They make life interesting.

6. They are great entertainment.

5. There is nothing better than hearing a child say their prayers at night.

4. There is nothing better than reading a book to a child on your lap.

3. There is nothing better than seeing your baby smile at you.

2. There is nothing better than holding a sleeping baby/child on your lap.

1. When you hold that baby in your arms for the first time, you know there is nothing better in life that you could or will ever do.

Did I miss any reasons?

Neighbor gifts

It's things like neighbor gifts that make me want to scream. I can't handle it. Half my neighbors I go to church with and the other half I do their hair, so I feel like I have to give EVERYONE a neighbor gift. Then, I still have people who show up and give us a gift, and I have to run over, and hurry and put their name on one, and pretend like I was always going to give them one. I hate it. It makes me crazy.

I just finished my neighbor gifts. I only did 28 this year. I had to find something cheap, but that dosen't look too cheap. Here's what I found.

My sister-in-law sent me a snowflake poem via e-mail. Here it is...

Snowflakes falling from the sky
Help remind us exactly why
Christmas came so long ago
Cleansing the earth like each new snow
One pure, unique, and perfect form,
Who came to earth to withstand the storm.
Each snowflake melts as does the ice,
But we can’t forget the sacrifice;
So display this symbol of the season
To recollect what gives us reason
One pure, unique and perfect form,
Who came to earth to transcend the storm.

So then I went to Target and found these 4 snowflake ornaments for only $1. Yes, that's 4 for a $1. Good price, huh?

So then I put them in these little bags I found at Wal-Mart. And tied them with a ribbon, put the poem on it, and a little bow. Cute, and cheap!



As long as you don't live on my street, feel free to copy :)

Friday, November 27, 2009

Top 10 reasons to be done having kids...

Top 10 reasons why I’m done having kids…

#14. We are ready to move past the always pregnant or have a baby stage.

#13. You life is not as crazy if you only have 3 kids.

#12. I’m too much of a cheap skate to have a lot of kids.

#11. Can’t hardly handle the one’s I’ve got.

#10. Love giving away all the toys, baby clothes, etc.

#9. Want to have a big bonfire and dance around it while throwing in my maternity clothes, nursing bra’s, breast pump, bottles, binky’s, diapers, fat clothes I’ve held onto for years, and anything else I may have needed while pregnant, breastfeeding, or had to use 24x a day when you have a baby. BURN BABY BURN!

#8. It’s easier to go on vacation with or without your kids if you only have 3 kids.

#7. You can give each one of your kids more attention if you have a smaller number.

#6. I never have to go through the recovery process again after having a baby.

#5. I never have to get fat again and (once I’m done loosing the weight) never have to try to loose 40 freakin pounds ever again.

#4. I would like to sleep all the way through the night sometime in the next 4 years.

#3. I never have to be pregnant again.. I am always tired, have acid reflux, can’t bend over, hate how clothes fit, am hot all the time, and can’t sleep when I’m pregnant.

#2. It hurts my back being pregnant and after because I have to hold the baby (at least occasionally).

#1. I NEVER HAVE TO BE PREGNANT AGAIN!

Yes, I know #1 is an anti-climax, but I really am so excited to never have to be pregnant again.

I also realize that most of these reasons are really selfish, but maybe that’s another reason why not to have another kid. I’m too selfish :)